
For the good of both.
Customers need privacy, respect, and the ability to provide good and helpful information to the companies they deal with. The good clues customers bring can include far more than what companies get today from their CRM systems and from surveillance of customer activities. For example, market intelligence that flows both ways can happen on a massive scale.
But only if customers set the terms.
Now they can, using a new standard from the IEEE called P7012, aka MyTerms. It governs machine readability of personal privacy terms. These are terms that customers proffer as first parties, and companies agree to as second parties. Lots of business can be built on top of those terms, which at the ground level start with service provision without surveillance or unwanted data sharing by the company with other parties. New agreements can be made on top of that, but MyTerms are where genuine and trusting (rather than today’s coerced and one-sided) relationships can be built.
When companies are open to MyTerms agreements, they don’t need cookie notices. Nor do they need 10,000-word terms and conditions or privacy policies because they’ll have contractual agreements with customers that work for both sides.
On top of that foundation, real relationships can be built by VRM systems on the customers’ side and CRM systems on the corporate side. Both can also use AI agents: personal AI for customers and corporate AI for companies. Massive businesses can grow to supply tools and services on both sides of those new relationships. These are businesses that can only grow atop agreements that customers bring to the table, and at scale across all the companies they engage.
This is the kind of thing that four guys (me included)† had in mind when they posted The Cluetrain Manifesto* on the Web in April 1999. A book version of the manifesto came out in early 2000 and became a business bestseller that still sells in nine languages. Above the manifesto’s 95 theses is this master clue**, written by Christopher Locke:

MyTerms is the only way we (who are not seats or eyeballs or end users or consumers) finally have reach that exceeds corporate grasp, so companies can finally deal with the kind of personal agency that the Internet promised in the first place.
The MyTerms standard requires that a roster of possible agreements be posted at a disinterested nonprofit. The individual chooses one, the company agrees to it (or not). Both sides keep an identical record of the agreement.
The first roster will be at Customer Commons, which is ProjectVRM’s 501(c)3 nonprofit spinoff. It was created to do for personal privacy terms what Creative Commons does for personal copyright licenses. (It was Customer Commons, aka CuCo, that the IEEE approached with the idea of creating the MyTerms standard.)
Work on MyTerms started in 2017 and is in the final stages of IEEE approval process. While it is due to be published early next year, what it specifies is simple:
- Individuals can choose a term posted at Customer Commons or the equivalent
- Companies can agree to the individual’s choice or not
- The decision can be recorded identically by both sides
- Data about the decision can be recorded by both sides and kept for further reference, auditing, or dispute resolution
- Both sides can know and display the state of agreement or absence of agreement (for example, the state of a relationship, should one come to exist)
MyTerms not a technical spec, so implementations are open to whatever. Development on any of those can start now. So can work in any of the six areas listed above.
The biggest thing MyTerms does for customers—and people just using free services—is getting rid of cookie notices, which are massively annoying and not worth the pixels they are printed on. If a company really does care about personal privacy, it’ll respect personal privacy requirements. This is how things work in the natural world, where tracking people like marked animals has been morally wrong for millennia. In the digital world, however, agreements need to be explicit, so programming and services can be based on them. MyTerms does that.
For business, MyTerms has lots of advantages:
- Reduced or eliminated compliance risk
- Competitive differentiation
- Lower customer churn
- Grounds for real rather than coerced relationships (CRM+VRM)
- Grounds for better signaling (clues!) going in both directions
- Reduced or eliminated guesswork about what customers want, how they use products and services, and how both might be improved
Lawyers get a new market for services on both the buy and sell sides of the marketplace. Companies in the CMP (consent management platform) business (e.g. Admiral and OneTrust) have something new and better to sell.
Lawmakers and Regulators can start looking at the Net and the Web as places where freedom of contract prevails, and contracts of adhesion (such as what you “agree” to with cookie notices) are obsolesced.
Developers can have a field day (or decade). Look for these categories to emerge
- Agreement Management Platforms – Migrate from today’s much-hated consent management platforms (hello OneTrust, Admiral, and the rest).
- Vendor Relationship Management (VRM) Tools and services – Fill the vacuum that’s been there since the Web got real in 1995.
- Customer Relationship Management (CRM) – Make its middle name finally mean something.
- Customer Data Return (CDR) – Give, sell back, or share with customers the data you’ve been gathering without their permission since forever. Talking here to car companies, TV makers, app makers, and every other technology product with spyware onboard for reporting personal activity to parties unknown.
- Platform Relief – Free customers from the walled gardens of Apple, Microsoft, Amazon, and every other maker of hardware and software that currently bears the full burden of providing personal privacy to customers and users. Those companies can also embrace and help implement MyTerms for both sides of the marketplace.
- Personal AI (pAI)– Till and plant a vast new greenfield for countless companies, old and new. This includes Apple (which can make Apple Intelligence truly “AI for the rest of us” rather than Siri in AI drag), Mozilla (with its Business Accelerator for personal AI) , Kwaai (for open source personal AI), and everyone else who wants to jump on the train.
- Big meshes of agents, such as what these developers are all working on.
In the marketplace, we can start to see all these things:
- Predictions made by The Intention Economy: When Customers Take Charge finally come true.
- New dances between customers and companies, demand and supply. (“The Dance” is a closing chapter of The Intention Economy.)
- New commercial ecosystems can grow around a richer flow of clues in both directions, based on shared interest and trust between demand and supply.
- Surveillance capitalism will be obsolesced — and replaced by an economy aligned with personal agency and respect from customers’ corporate partners.
- A new distributed P2P fabric of personally secure and shared data processing and storage — See what KwaaiNet + Verida, for example, might do together.
All aboard!
†Speaking for myself in this post. I invite the other two surviving co-authors to weigh in if they like.
*At this writing, the Cluetrain website, along with many others at its host, is offline while being cured of an infection. To be clear, however, it will be back on the Web. Meanwhile, I’m linking to a snapshot of the site in the Internet Archive—a service for which the world should be massively grateful.
**The thesis that did the most to popularize Cluetrain was “Markets are conversations,” which was at the top of Cluetrain’s ninety-five theses. Imagining that this thesis was just for them, marketers everywhere saw marketing, rather than markets, as “conversations.” Besides misunderstanding what Cluetrain meant by conversation (that customers and companies should both have equal and reciprocal agency, and engage in human ways), marketing gave us “conversational” versions of itself that were mostly annoying. And now (thank you, marketing), every damn topic is now also a fucking “conversation”—the “climate conversation,” the “gender conversation,” the “conversation about data ownership.” I suspect that making “conversation” a synonym for “topic” was also a step toward making every piece of propaganda into a “narrative.” But I digress. Stop reading here and scroll back to read the case for MyTerms. And please, hope that it also doesn’t become woefully misunderstood.



















